We’d been getting
some slight pressure from some sectors of our family who shall remain nameless—Mom—to
get a professionally-done photo of the kid.
To be honest, I really don’t like those pictures where the kid still
looks more like an alien than a Towles.
So, our waiting was part planning and part
we-don’t-have-time-to-do-this-in-between-feeding-clothing-sleeping-and-burping
this little monster.
As we were at home
dressing for this event, Sunday asked me, “What should Jonah wear?” It was a very important question, one that would
impact how we would see the little guy for years to come. Important question. Wrong person asked. I looked at Jonah and he usually smiled at
me. I didn’t mind if wore the overalls
instead of the blue jeans. It didn’t
matter to me. As a father, I did not
care what the kid wears for most of these occasions. On top of that, if I did make the choice, it
would probably not look as good as if Sunday made the decision.
Fortunately, Sunday
and I have the “if it doesn’t matter to me, then you make the decision”
conversation. This conversation says
that if one of us does not care about the outcome of a situation, then the
other person can make the decision on his/her own. For instance, I usually don’t care what we
eat for dinner. My favorite food is
“leftovers.” Doesn’t matter,
usually. For Sunday, she actually has to
have food that tastes good. I require
food in the correct abundance. Thus, if
we’re going out to eat, she’ll choose where we’ll go, as long as there is
enough of it to fill me up.
For our pictures,
she made the call, and we left with jeans on, but different shirts.
As we entered the
picture place, I realized a few things:
One: the picture place
looks like every other picture place on the planet. From Tallahassee to Tel-Aviv, the same cheesy
pictures on the wall, the same props and the same nasty carpet. Never enough seats, and never any reading
material.
And we wonder why
we waited so long to get pictures done…
Two: the person
taking the picture NEVER looks like he/she should be working with the
public. The woman who took Jonah’s
picture needed to slap on some deodorant and drag a comb through her hair. A toothbrush would have also been a great
idea, too.
Three: the posing
suggestions always make me nervous.
The first thing the
picture person, a.k.a. “nature girl” tells me to do is take off my shoes. I thought she felt uncomfortable around
people who regularly wore shoes.
(Remember, we lived in Kentucky).
Then, she had me stand up on the large box that we should have been
sitting on for the picture. I am
wondering where she’s going with this, especially since she now has a great
camera shot at my quadriceps.
But then, the magic
happened.
She redeemed
herself like no other. She stood Jonah
up in front of me and I held his hands way above his head. He smiled, stuck out his tongue, and the
woman took his picture. Cutest thing you
ever saw.
There’s something
you need to know about Jonah. He is a
personable little guy who likes to laugh and coo at people. His most endearing habit, in my opinion,
though, is his penchant for sticking out his tongue. He smiles, toothless, with tongue
protruding. He screams, mouth agape,
with tongue protruding. He sleeps, lips
pursed, with tongue protruding. He’s
like a lizard or something. Every
picture we took had him smiling with his tongue out. It was a good time.
I got out of there
with my boy happy, my wife happy, and with my shoes on.
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